One of the most important decisions we must make as parents is choosing a godparent, the person who will be responsible for providing life lessons and good example to your child. This person is very likely to have a meaningful role in your child’s life. Here are several recommendations for choosing the right godparent considering important factors about each candidate.
a) First, make a list of positive and negative qualities and character traits of everyone you are considering. Take into account accomplishments and values you admire of each person as well as elements of their personality you absolutely would not want your child exposed to.
b) Look within your family and consider someone such as a sibling or close cousin. It is likely that a stronger bond will form if your child and his/her godparent are from the same family, especially because they will spend time together at family events.
c) Choose someone who will accept role responsibly. Decide on someone who in the event of your death would be an excellent guardian.
d) Pick someone with similar ethical and moral values who will provide you child with a positive influence.
e) Select someone dependable and with a relatively stable life. Be sure the person you choose has a strong sense of personal responsibility.